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Falling for someone who is already in a relationship can be a complicated and painful experience. You may find yourself wondering if he is truly committed to his girlfriend or if there is a chance for something more with you.
It can be challenging to determine if a man is genuinely interested in you or if he is just leading you on. However, there are some clear signs that he will never break his girlfriend's heart because of you.
Here are 13 signs to look out for:
1. He talks about his girlfriend all the time
If he is constantly mentioning his girlfriend, it's a sign that he is committed to her and is not looking for anything else.
And by also talking about his girlfriend, he's indirectly letting you know that he loves her and is committed to her.
2. He doesn't make time for you
If he is always busy and doesn't prioritize spending time with you, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing anything further.
He doesn't prioritize you in his life. He may make time for his girlfriend instead. This can be really hurtful and make you feel like you're not a priority in his life.
Even if you let him know how painful it is, you can't force love.
3. He doesn't flirt with you
If he doesn't show any signs of attraction or flirtation, it's a clear indication that he is not interested in you.
When he doesn't have any feelings for you, he'll never pay attention to your feelings too.
4. He's a good guy
A good guy is always clear about his intentions that's why he told you before that he's already in a relationship to avoid playing with your feelings.
You can accept him like that share ideas and keep a better friendship contact instead of forcing him to a relationship he's not interested in. He will never leave his girlfriend because of your beauty or whatever because he's loyal and a very honest partner.
5. He avoids physical contact
If he keeps his distance and avoids any physical contact, it's a clear sign that he is not interested in you romantically.
He might be avoiding physical contact because he is feeling uncomfortable or threatened by you, or he might be acting submissively because he finds you intimidating.
He could also be trying to protect himself from getting too close to you, or it could be a sign that he isn't interested in a romantic relationship.
6. He doesn't make plans for the future
If he doesn't talk about the future or make any plans with you, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you.
7. He doesn't introduce you to his friends
If he keeps you separate from his social circle, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing anything more than a casual friendship.
He might not be introducing you to his friends because he doesn't see the relationship as long-term, or he could be keeping you a secret for some other reason.
It could also be that he is hiding something from you or trying to protect himself from getting too close.
8. He doesn't make an effort to get to know you
If he doesn't show an interest in getting to know you on a deeper level, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you.
9. He doesn't compliment you
If he doesn't give you any compliments or praise, it's a sign that he is not attracted to you in a romantic way.
You might also notice that he's not appreciating your presence; why not let go?
10. He doesn't confide in you
If he doesn't share personal details or feelings with you, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing a deeper connection with you.
It could also be that he feels uncomfortable sharing his innermost thoughts or feelings with you, or that he's already sharing them with his girlfriend.
11. He talks about other women
If he talks about other women in a romantic or sexual way, it's a sign that he is not interested in pursuing anything with you.
He's not personalizing the conversation by turning his ideas toward your interests which means he's not leaving his girlfriend for you.
12. He's taking you for granted
13. He tells you he is not interested
If he directly tells you that he is not interested in pursuing anything with you, it's a clear sign that he will never break his girlfriend's heart for you.
Even if it's painful, you need to understand and get a new partner, just know it's not going to work unless his girlfriend breaks his heart by leaving him for another man.
In conclusion
It's essential to pay attention to these signs to avoid getting hurt or wasting your time pursuing someone who is not interested in you.
Remember that if a man is genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with you, he will make it clear and prioritize your connection. Keep your standards high, and don't settle for less than you deserve. The right person will come along when the time is right, and you deserve someone who is fully committed to you and ready to build a future together.
